How Shoplifting Affects You and Your
Family
One of the most common
non-violent crimes facing America
today - and most of the world - is shoplifting. So prevalent is this problem,
that most stores and shops automatically increases prices (as much as 10%) to
cover these losses.
Shoplifters fall into
several categories. First, there are the "professionals". They make their living
by stealing - most often to their "customers" specifications. They have to
perfect their technique to operate . . .to remove labels with scissors or razor
blades, that could incriminate them if caught . . .or by designing a "booster"
box for stolen articles. . . or the expert use of "bad bags" (shopping bags) . .
. or "booster" skirts or pants (ordinary appearing garments with baglike
compartments inside). . .plus dozens of other clever "professional's tools".
Some take things they could
easily pay for and perhaps do not even want. These offenders may suffer from
kleptomania, a neurotic, irresistible impulse to steal. This is almost never
done for the purpose of acquiring the item taken. While these people may not
necessarily be considered mentally ill, generally "kleptomaniacs" are
emotionally disturbed.
The greatest number of
shoplifters are "amateurs". Usually, they have little money, few scruples &
an intense desire to own luxuries. Psychologists say the four most common urges
and emotions underlying these crimes are:
(1) Profound feelings of
guilt,
(2) A wish to be punished,
(3) A need to prove their
worth and/or
(4) an impulse to retaliate
for real or fancied wrongs. These shoplifters are not necessarily ill or
disturbed, they simply steal because it pays.
Whether the item taken is
of little value (as a candy bar or piece of bubble gum), or of greater worth
(typewriter or camera) it is still shoplifting and it is still a crime. These
crimes affect us all by being forced to pay higher prices.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR
CHILDREN ARE SHOPLIFTERS -
No matter how young
children are, they must be taught that to take anything without paying for it is
a wrongful act. If a child does not realize this at an early age, it may set a
pattern that could follow him into adulthood, with disturbing consequences.
The simplest way to prevent
a child from stealing is to watch him at all times while you are shopping and
reprimand him when the act takes place. If this fails, take him to the store
manager or other authoritative personnel and say something like "My son took
this. Will you please tell him what happens to people who steal?"
Naturally, it is a more
serious problem when teenagers and adults engage in shoplifting. A friend or
family member may be extremely secretive, but if they engage in shoplifting
regularly, there are usually giveaway clues as to their activities:
(1) Extra unexplained
income,
(2) Possession of luxuries
you know they cannot afford,
(3) Secretive habits during
certain times of the day, and/or
(4) Lavish gifts on friends
and acquaintances.
WHEN YOU DISCOVER A
SHOPLIFTER -
If it's a stranger in the
illegal act, notify store personnel. If it's a friend or family member, warn him
first. If this fails, convince him to see a doctor. As a last resort, you may
have to notify police, to save him from ridicule, disgrace and extreme hardship
later.